Date: Mar 9, 2018
Category: Analysis Essay
This is basically an emotional competence framework analysis about my self. I believe am one very competent individual in my job. I would explain this by the fact that where I work I rarely receive complaints that are related to customers complaining about my competence. I believe am well trained to do what I do and to add on that, my profession to me is pretty much like a calling, and very passionate about it and therefore fully qualified and competent enough to tackle problems of any nature in may area of practice. I manage myself in very many ways, first of all I keep time ,this is because of the fact that in most of my activities and duties I always have a time frame within which I must finish my work. My mode of operation allows me to be time conscious .I have always worked with deadlines and I would attribute my ability of effectively managing myself to the time limits and deadlines that characterize my job. Another way through which I mage myself is by having self discipline and respect for other because I also like being respected and treated properly. When it comes to self –awareness, am one of those people who mind so much about myself. I know my strengths and weakness and that is one of the reasons why I always venture in areas that I can be successful with very minimal efforts. When it comes to matters concerning emotional awareness, I think I have a lot of it. This can be attributed to my upbringing and the close relationship I had with my mother while growing up. This in many ways made be to be very emotional and very sensitive to other people’s emotions. The emotional attachment I have for my close friends relatives and associates is clearly seen in some of the things I do for them for instance the kind of appreciation I give them at times even for the slightest assistance which many people rarely acknowledge under normal circumstances . I would say am a very self confident individual in the sense that I rarely cower or develop cold feet when faced with difficult or threatening situations always handle my challenges with a lot of confidence be it a challenge at work or generally in life. It is always believed that the only way to do away with fear and develop confidence is to expose yourself to those fearful situations and taking up responsibility especially where everyone else seems to shy off. These are some of the strategies I use to ensure that my confidence is fully developed. I practice a lot of self regulation especially when in a group of people of basically or while in the eye of the public.Embarassment is one of my greatest fear, to avoid embarrassing situations I tend to practice a lot of self regulations .Most of the people who don’t practice self regulation always seem to be getting themselves in trouble with the authorities .I always practice self regulation in situations where I suspect disclosure and opening up may land me in trouble. This in many ways helps me to have self control and to also avoid getting into problems with those I interact with in my place of work or even at home .Another aspect of my personality that makes me stand out is that am trustworthy. I always feel compelled to be trustworthy because it pays in many ways for instance when requesting for financial; assistance and any other form of assistance from people who don’t know me well .Am very adaptable to situations and this quality helps me to feel at home in whatever place am visiting no matter how uncomfortable it may get. Being a highly motivated character I manage to accomplish and achieve a lot in my life. My passion for success and prosperity acts as a drive to whatever activity I try my hand on. To be successful in whatever I do I always try my best to be committed to it and directing all my energy to it. All this can not guarantee one success and acceptance, my social skills are perfect and this enables me to understand others. I have travelled widely and encountered different cultures which in many ways have helped me develop socially. When it comes to politics I tend to support political parties that are progressive and have good ideologies. My social skill have been helpful in many ways for instance in helping and influence people, being in better position to communicate, and therefore being apposition to amicably handle and solve conflicts to ensure that peace and tranquility prevails all the time.